Dear editor,
With the signing of Civil Union bill SB232, Governor Abercrombie wisely rights the wrong perpetuated by his short-sighted predecessor who avoidably prolonged entrenched intolerance.
Long overdue, civil unions are a good start. Yet, the ultimate goal must be one of total equality, which in the end will require a legal redefinition of marriage. Equal rights for all demands single-tiered legal protection of sexual diversity, identical to those of racial, religious, and political diversity.
This values shift has already occurred within the general population. The Pew Research Center recently conducted a poll that found 70% of Baby Boomers and young adult Millennials believe the main purpose of marriage is mutual happiness and fulfillment, rather than raising children or anything else.
For anyone who thinks redefining marriage is a step too drastic, history will be the judge, as it was with interracial marriage. Only sixty years ago interracial—or “mixed-race marriage” as it was then called—was illegal in 31 of the 48 states, yet today nobody would argue against the laws that righted that wrong. Substitute same-sex marriage for mixed-race marriage and the issue again is revealed as one of equal rights and justice for all.
Imagine how different Hawaii’s rich and diverse heritage would be today if all the kupuna of the past two hundred years had been legally denied the right to marry someone of a different race. Personally, my wife of Hawaiian ancestry and I would have been denied the right to marry, as would also have been her parents and countless other islanders.
The ultimate goal of the civil rights movement was for total equality, as is now of the sexual rights movement. It will be a righteous day for Hawaii when that happens—and it will—most likely through federal legislation legalizing same-sex marriage nationwide.
When that day comes, as goodness only begets goodness, there will be nothing to fear.
Michael Ra Bouchard, Ph.D.
Clinical Sexologist
Hilo, Hawaii